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Who is this little creature, this dictator dressed in a diaper? She's your baby, of course. And if you want to understand the newest member of your family, you need to study her in her natural habitat. In short, learn her temperament.
Child development experts watch several key traits when determining a baby's temperament. So maybe your baby is feisty or easygoing; or maybe she hates change. By identifying her behavior, you can work in tandem with her -- making everyone's life in her little kingdom smoother, easier, and happier.
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The questions were based on a list of key traits outlined by Pediatrician William Carey, MD, author of Understanding Your Child's Temperament. The traits include:
1: Activity/Energy Level
To be in synch with baby, if she's high energy, you need to look for ways to keep her moving but not at a frenetic pace. If she's low energy, you need to make sure you don't take the easy way out and park her in front of the television.
2. Approach to Newness
If your baby loves new things, lucky you! But if you find he's naturally hesitant or shy, he will need extra reassurance and patience.
3. Regularity
If everything is unpredictable -- potty, naps, moods -- you're going to have to let go of your control freak ways and loosen up. If your baby likes structure, you might have to give up your let-it-all-hang-out ways and give him the schedule he craves.
4. Intensity
If your baby's intense, you're going to have to teach him how to handle the curves of life and how to channel that energy in positive ways. If he's laid back, you've still got some challenges -- he can get lost in the shuffle of family life, and you might become a slacker in terms of providing the same life lessons that a more intense child would demand.
5. Sensitivity
If your baby has high sensitivity to lights, noise, or texture, be patient -- and look for ways to avoid sensory overload. Watch the volume dial; examine the lighting and the type of clothes she's in.
6. Persistence
If your baby is intrigued for a long time solving a problem, let him go. If he has the attention span of a gnat, don't lose faith. He's still a baby. And actually puzzles are great tools to lengthen attention span -- along with a daily dose of bedtime reading.
7. Overall Mood
Remember, mommies can get moody too. And although everybody wants a happy baby, accept your baby's uniqueness if she's not always full of smiles. That said, if Baby seems too nervous or fretful, make sure you're not harried or overscheduled and you have the time to truly observe her daily patterns -- and what does make her smile. And remember, Happy Mother can make for Happy Baby.